Changing a mind set or behavior doesn’t
just happen it takes direct action.
Sometimes just as a fly on a friends or acquaintance forehead, we see something that needs done but if we present it the wrong way even our best hearts intentions will not achieve the desired outcome. Avoiding the first response is intensely hard, but pausing a moment typically gets the job done. Very possibly they know the fly is there and brush it away themselves. We all got stuff we deal with, and whatever that “stuff” is we have assigned a guard to protect it. Maybe not because we like it perhaps we hate it and don't know the best way to deal with it. ✅So for today’s take away: pause
on our first thought.